I`m new to this group just thought it might be interesting because I have been on a dating site and use it frequently. So hi to all of you and hope we can share some insight.

Kim38 - one of my general rules with relationships is NEVER ASK HYPOTHETICAL QUESTIONS. What if?!? or If...would you...? It`s a set up for negativity. Unless you`re a fortune teller you will never know what the future will conspire. With all relationships, there`s always that risk and chance that you must take. The only thing that is certain and in your control is your feelings and actions. That being said, you mustn`t worry about what might or might not happen and just enjoy what you have. Live in the moment. Try something different. If he`s into feet and you`re not, well you can learn right? Just focus on always keeping your feet looking cute to minimize his straying eyes. He sounds like a good decent guy and for the most part very honest. Even if he did find other feet attractive, he`ll always come home to yours and he sounds like he`d confess his attraction to others. So, my vote goes to giving this guy a fair chance and to just go along with the flow.
You being a Pisces, water sign, it should be easy for you to go along with the stream. Him being a Leo, I don`t think you`ll be able to change his ways. he will always be into them. so you need to determine if he`s worth the stay.
Good luck and keep us posted.
hope you have a great valentines!

I'm new to this website and I think I have found something special. Hopefully :). To godsbabygirl - you need to look at it as half truths really. I think we would all like to think that everyone is telling the truth on their profiles, but you just never know. As you get to know someone, then you will see if they are a truthful person or not. And go with your gut instincts. As woman, they rarely fail. To butterfly - to answer your question HELL NO!! You go girl. It's the new way of meeting people, just don't take everything to heart. Meeting someone in person is the best way. But you need to start somewhere, and this is it. Question(s) for all you ladies, I need female feedback, here is my story. I met a really nice guy online, on a singles site. He's tall, gorgeous, extremely fit, and we have a great time together. We are both intouch with our inner child and love playing games and just having fun (and sex of course). We have been seeing each other since Aug last year. In Nov, we decided to be more of an item - bf/gf :). Which tickled me pink. I was married for 17+ years, with my ex for almost 20. We basically grew up together, in our adult lives. We got married when we were 20. We thought it would be forever, at least that's what we were aiming for, as most couple try, I'd like to believe. But, we ended up going through A LOT together over the years, survived together, laughed and loved together. Throughout the last 3-5 years of our marriage, we lost each other, and fell out of love with each other. There were a number of things that we tried to fix, through therapy, councelling, prayer, etc. It just wasn't meant to be. But we remain good friends to this day, make better friends now than we did when we were together. There is so much more to tell you about this, but it can wait for another time. My question(s) this time has to do with my boyfriend and my feelings around that. My ex and I are completely over, seperated for over a year, and within the next couple of months we will be working on the divorce - but it is all amicable. My b/f is a very social person, very outgoing, extrovert, loves to be the center of attention. One of the qualities I love about him. He also has a fetish. He really likes womans feet. Now, it took me some time to think about this, absorb it, and become ok with it. He has reassured me that it is just about feet AND THAT'S IT. I want to trust him, I want to believe him. Its safe clean fun. He is very honest about it, and has told me a couple of things about it. I have basically said to him I don't want to know. Knowing, would just bug me I think, actually I know it would. Also, I love him and I think he loves me to. But....yes, there is that but, I don't know if I can stay in a relationship where my feet are the only feet he touches. I know it's just feet, but my question is what if the temptation is there, what then. He told me that once there was temptation, and he told her he has a g/f and walked out. I believe him, or am I being an idiot. He is very clear to the ladies he has met, and have told them up front, that he is only interested in their feet, and that he has a g/f. This is what he tells me. OK, some more info, he's in his late 20's, I'm in my very late 30's. I'm a Pisces and he's a Leo, for you astrology types. We are very compatible in a number of ways, and age is only a number to us. So, tell me, what are you thinking when you are reading this?

godsbabygirl - the only way to know if anyone`s online profile is sincere is by engaging in conversation, whether by intersite messaging, email, phone or face to face. I call it the `screening process`. It`s kind of like resumes. Anyone can fake their resume or embellish, but it isn`t until the `interview` do you actually get a true sense of what someone`s really like. I think it`s really important to have a thorough screening process. Also, especially because it is the internet, SAFETY FIRST. If you do happen to meet them in person, let someone know where you`re going and make sure it`s a public place. Don`t forget to trust your gut instinct - if you get the `vibe` that there`s something they`re hiding, call their bluff or run the other way. Only truth and time will tell!

How can you know whether a man`s online profile is sincere or not?