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[photo]-7 Sexy Things to Try

7 Sexy Things to Try

by Kinky Kiki
published May 15, 2009

rating: (74 Ratings)

 
 
 
We all have our preferences when it comes to sex, whether it’s the type of men we date or the sex positions we attempt. We all have a threshold we’re comfortable with, but crossing it every once in a while is worth the added excitement. Check out seven things a sexy lady like you should try!

Have outdoor sex.
There’s something rather liberating about having sex out in the open air, whether it’s in the woods or at the beach. Give it a try this summer!

Have a friend with benefits.
This is a perfect little agreement where both you and your buddy get what you want, from exciting booty calls to times where you just need to get some. It’s a nice way to get fairly consistent sex when not in a relationship. Just be sure that both parties understand the nature of this agreement.

Get a Brazilian bikini wax.
We all make sure to upkeep our nether regions regularly, but to remove all hairs save for a vertical strip, a fancy design, or nothing at all? It will make you feel utterly sexy, so try it at least once to give your man a nice surprise. You’ll end up surprising yourself, too!

Date someone who isn’t Mr. Right.
We’re not necessarily talking about a jerk who only calls for but one reason, but someone who is your complete opposite, who does not fall under the category of the men you normally go out with. If the sole reason you’re going out with him is the fact that he’s just plain hot, that’s okay. (Be sure, however, to still treat the dude with respect.)

Buy a vibrator (if you haven’t already).
Whether you’re in a relationship or not, a vibe is something every woman should keep in her underwear drawer or night table. If this means trying self-love or walking into a sex shop for the first time, go for it! Those are two more things you can add to this list if you’ve never done them before!

Try backdoor sex.
Many women hem and haw about this one, outright refusing to even try it. Before getting all negative about anal sex, give it a shot at least once with someone you trust. (Be sure to have some lube handy!) Who knows? You may end up enjoying it.

Have a fling.
Try something meaningless that doesn’t have to lead to a relationship. From a one night stand to a summer fling, every woman should have a commitment-free fling that’s purely fun, carnal and string-free.
 
 
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  • jocanadian
    June 10, 2009 at 11:11 am
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    About the worst advise ever. Very little to do with sexy more like smutty. No morality. No love. And in my mind back door sex is for gay lovers.
  • nemoway
    May 19, 2009 at 8:21 am
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    These are terrible suggestions.
    Aside from "having sex outdoors" and "buying a vibrator"....the others suggest promiscuous sex and bed hopping.....pffft.
    No thanks!
    I'd rather be in a comitted monogamous long term relationship thank you very much!
    They should've called this "7 things to try if you want to catch STIs"....
  • LadyHeresy
    May 19, 2009 at 12:57 pm
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    What are you talking about - two (Outdoor Sex & Vibrator) out of seven item here are good, one is interesting and four are promote promiscous behaviour (besides many of us women date Mr. Wrong anyways:).
    Why don't you actually promote ideas that expand horizons instead of VD?
    What a disappointing article - my husband could write a better one for you!
  • sorq
    May 19, 2009 at 1:40 pm
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    What's with this article.... Beside the vibrator, outdoor sex, and bikini wax... It's almost as if this is my best guy friend is giving me these suggestions to get with me. Re-write with a choice of sexy things!
  • habgirl64
    May 19, 2009 at 7:44 pm
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    I like the suggestions. I did have a friend with benefits and sometimes wish I still did. I also had a one night stand and wouldn't trade it for the world!! It was fun, hot and sexy however I was not in a relationship at the time. I do agree that I wouldn't have a "fling" if I was dating someone and also my friend with benefits was also during times I was not in a relationship.
  • epiphany
    May 21, 2009 at 11:34 pm
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    wow - are canadian women this repressed
    • JinXie
      April 11, 2013 at 10:21 pm
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      Yup, for some reason almost all other women I know are complete bedroom bores. You say "vibrator", they squeal "I don't masturbate, I don't need to do that!". You say "anal", they gasp "Groossss, only gay perverts do that." Dare to suggest a bed buddy if you're single, and they judge, going on about STDs as if they've never heard of the Condom.



      I'm 37 and happily married now, but several years ago, one of my most satisfying physical relationships was with a "friend with benefits". We gave one another what was lacking in both our lives at the time, had great mutual respect and both benefitted...but we weren't interested in a romantic connection. I also had a couple very memorable one night stands that I don't regret a bit.



      Ladies, chill out a bit and stop judging. Casual doesn't mean irresponsible or unsafe. Masturbation and sex toys are perfectly normal and acceptable, even beneficial. (Alone OR with a partner). And anal doesn't mean homosexual or unnatural, it can be great for both men and women. As long as two adults are consenting and ok with it, nothing is taboo.
    • JinXie
      April 11, 2013 at 10:21 pm
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      Yup, for some reason almost all other women I know are complete bedroom bores. You say "vibrator", they squeal "I don't masturbate, I don't need to do that!". You say "anal", they gasp "Groossss, only gay perverts do that." Dare to suggest a bed buddy if you're single, and they judge, going on about STDs as if they've never heard of the Condom.



      I'm 37 and happily married now, but several years ago, one of my most satisfying physical relationships was with a "friend with benefits". We gave one another what was lacking in both our lives at the time, had great mutual respect and both benefitted...but we weren't interested in a romantic connection. I also had a couple very memorable one night stands that I don't regret a bit.



      Ladies, chill out a bit and stop judging. Casual doesn't mean irresponsible or unsafe. Masturbation and sex toys are perfectly normal and acceptable, even beneficial. (Alone OR with a partner). And anal doesn't mean homosexual or unnatural, it can be great for both men and women. As long as two adults are consenting and ok with it, nothing is taboo.
  • nicole4c
    May 27, 2009 at 9:17 am
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    Gross anal sex.
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