Single and Fabulous

When it seems like everyone is pairing up—from people to pigeons—take a few moments to appreciate the up-side of being unattached. We’ve got 10 reasons, so read on:

1. You know yourself well
Being single means having the time to figure out who you are—your likes and dislikes, dreams and goals. You also have the undivided time to pursue those ambitions; if you want to go back to school, climb the Rocky Mountains, and open your own spa, now is the time.

2. You control the remote
We’re not just referring to TV here. You get to decide how you spend your weekends, evenings and vacations. Our choices, large and small, define us. As a singleton, your choices are truly your own, without any pushing and prodding from a significant other.

3. You own a toolbox
You may not own a toolbox, but by now you have probably amassed a screwdriver, a hammer, possibly a drill—which means you’re not cowering in a corner, gnashing your teeth at the prospect of changing a light bulb. Being single means being self-reliant, and learning to care for yourself before caring for others.

4. The rock you’re wearing? You bought it.
At some point, we had to quote Beyoncé, but the lady was right: knowing that what you’ve got came from the sweat on your own brow is very satisfying indeed. And we’re not just talking about material possessions; you can truly say your achievements are your own.

5. You’re probably thinner…
That cliché of the single gal plopped down on her sofa, diving into a pint of ice cream? Forget it. Study after study has revealed that it’s married people, not singles, who put on the weight. According to a Cornell University study, newlyweds gain more weight on average than singles or those who are divorced. Another American study revealed an average weight gain of six to eight pounds over a two-year period after marriage. It seems people pick up the unhealthy eating habits of a spouse, and are often attracted to someone with the same behaviour. An additional factor, according to Yale researchers? “I’ve got him/her now, so I don’t have to work so hard.” We won’t bore you with the increased health risks that come with an expanding waistline, but we will encourage you to continue looking after yourself.

6. …and fitter!
If you’ve always dreamed of rock climbing or mastering the art of fencing, then now is the time. It’s not just a good way to meet people—you’ll also be getting in shape, learning a new sport, and feeling good about you, right now. Expand your notion of fitness, too—want to learn to play the drums? Then pound away!